
When the Surgeon General issues a warning, we’re accustomed to hearing about the dangers of smoking, alcohol, or obesity. These are concrete, actionable threats to our health. But now, the nation’s top doctor is warning (Opens in a new window) us about something far more personal: parenting. This advisory may offer some parents comfort, by acknowledging their feelings of stress or exhaustion from the increased challenges of raising children. But for others, it might induce anxiety or even panic — what do you do when the very act of raising your child is labeled a potential hazard to your mental health?
As a father of two boys, I understand the pressures that come with parenting. It’s a nonstop job, filled with profound joy and overwhelming responsibility. My children are both in college now, and surprisingly, that responsibility does not end when you drop them off at their dorm room. Unlike a stressful job where you can decide to move on, parenting is a lifelong commitment. You can’t simply quit when it becomes overwhelming. And for most of us, parenting is deeply fulfilling despite the challenges, and we embrace it as a central part of our identity. This reality makes the surgeon general’s warning particularly unsettling for many.
The stress of parenting isn’t new, but the complexities of modern life amplify the experience in different ways compared to previous generations. Today, the stress is compounded by the dual issue of parents working longer hours (see Australia’s recently enacted “disconnect” law (Opens in a new window)), while also spending more time with their children than ever before. Parents face new challenges like navigating a digitally-driven world where social media, online bullying, and the constant comparison game add layers of anxiety and other behavioral health issues not just for our kids, but for us as parents. The financial burden of childcare, the struggle to balance work and family life, and the isolation that many parents feel today make this stress all the more acute.

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When we think about the Surgeon General’s past warnings, they often focus on tangible actions we can take to improve our health. Unlike smoking or alcohol, which involve individual choices, parenting is a non-negotiable part of life for those with children. This makes the Surgeon General’s warning especially worrisome as there is no “quit” option here. This is the challenge that parents face in light of this new advisory: how to address the stress without disengaging or stepping away from the role.
This is where the conversation needs to evolve from merely identifying the problem to actively seeking solutions. It’s not enough to recognize that parenting is stressful — we need to explore how parents can manage the pressure and anxiety effectively. The answer does not reside in making parenting easier because that is impossible — it will always be challenging. For the record, no parent thinks it will ever be easy, but what we are speaking to here is the significant increase in stress due to numerous external factors. The focus needs to be on educating parents on how to implement the right tools and support to help them manage their stress and anxiety. For many parents, the acknowledgment of their struggles might bring relief or at least some consolation. Finally, the silent burden they’ve been carrying is being validated at the highest levels. But this acknowledgment also raises critical questions: How do we mitigate this stress? Where can parents turn for help? Traditional mental health resources are often out of reach for many due to financial or geographic barriers. We need innovative solutions that extend beyond the conventional models of care. And we need to make these solutions adaptable to meet individual needs.
The broader societal context can’t be ignored. Today’s parents are navigating a news cycle that often feels more divisive and anxiety-inducing than ever before. Managing the real threat of gun violence in our schools and knowing you can’t shelter your children from that creates an entirely new level of stress for most parents. Add to this an unprecedented and polarizing election cycle ahead, and anxiety levels in households across the country will likely increase, not decrease. This external pressure only exacerbates the stress parents feel, making the need for mental health support more urgent. If left unaddressed, this rising parental stress has implications not just for families but for society as a whole, potentially affecting the next generation’s mental health and well-being.
The Surgeon General’s warning is a call to action. We need to create environments where parents are supported — where mental health resources are accessible, and where the unique challenges of parenting in the modern world are understood and discussed openly. It’s about empowering parents, not with the false promise of an easy path, but with real tools to navigate through the journey despite the inevitable hurdles.As a father, I know firsthand the pressure of balancing a demanding job and the need to be there as a dad to my children. When parents are overwhelmed, it affects our ability to be the supportive, present figures our children need. There is no vacation from parenting to allow you to recharge your batteries. That’s why this conversation is so important. By addressing the root causes of parenting stress and providing accessible mental health resources, we can help parents remain encouraging and present nurturers who thrive in their roles.
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Joseph Perekupka (Opens in a new window)
Joseph Perekupka (Opens in a new window) is the CEO of Freespira (Opens in a new window), the only company to offer a medication-free, FDA-cleared digital therapeutic treatment proven to reduce or eliminate symptoms of panic disorder, panic attacks and PTSD in 28 days. Joe is a proven healthcare leader with over 25 years of commercial experience in multiple leadership and functional medical device and digital health roles. He plays an active role with organizations such as the Digital Therapeutics Alliance and DTx societies, where he maintains co-chair roles that are focused on propelling the DTx industry growth, and is passionate about creating equitable access to care for mental health patients nationwide.
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